Crucial Life Lessons From Electric Forest

It’s a little less than a month removed from my first trip to the Electric Forest music festival, and I, like most festival goers, can see a stark difference how human interaction feels inside such an event as compared to the coldness of ‘reality’.

Some may call it naive to compare the mundane day to day to the undeniable magic many feel at a festival. While I admit that it would be unwise to try and maintain the level and intensity of excitement one experiences during a festival, there is a marked, palpable and incredible difference with how humans treat each other for a brief few days.

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While the sights are other worldly, the civility should not be. (Image Credit: Jake West Photo)

There are others that will rush to discredit any experience herein as little more than the wandering interactions of a bunch of carefree kids in a field doing copious amounts of drugs. While I can understand your hesitation with mind altering substances influencing our perceptions or holds on reality, I can tell you that most of the below observations come at times when most all parties are oddly sober. (I don’t agree that drugs necessarily discredit an experience, but in this case, I assure you that’s not really relevant.)

Here are three things we would all be wise to bring back from the Forest.

Happy Forest

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That’s a solid totem. (Image Credit: Anthony Norkus Photography)

It may seem unimportant, but if you let it, you’ll find a very deep comfort in it. That strangers from all walks of life (well, many walks of life) come together with a shared goal — to create a weekend full of wonderful memories with people they care about.

Strangers come to the rescue of other strangers, not for any other reason than they have the means to help and its the right thing to do.

But that’s a goal, certainly, that should exist at times other than just festivals, or vacations, or even weekends. That should be one of the core goals of our day to day life. The rings of “Happy Forest” provide a constant reminder that we are all wishing the best moments ahead for each stranger that is in earshot of our well wishes. It also serves as a reminder of uniformity, that we are all, indeed, at a music festival. Which brings me to my next lesson we should take from music festivals:

We’re All In This Together

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All things considered, I had a great time. I was, clearly, one of the very luckiest ones. (Image Credit: Mashable)

Even when everything goes right, you’re still out in a field camping for days, subject to the whims both of nature and festival organizers, neither of which are perfect. You’ll have needs, be it gum, a lighter, a hoodie or poncho, an extra tent stake, a rain fly, a chair, a shoelace, and on and on and on. While a strong sense of individuality is both important and valued, we can’t reasonably be ready for any of the limitless variables.

When things goes sideways in life, people struggle to find a support system to help them. At a festival, pardon my intensity, people step the fuck up. People are looked after, taken care of. Strangers come to the rescue of other strangers, not for any other reason than they have the means to help and its the right thing to do.

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Seems easy enough, but. (Image Credit: GetBullish.com)

Why that can’t be a cultural norm may be a question I will struggle hardest with until my last breaths.

Be Present

And I dig it.

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That’s a good sign. (Image Credit: Brown Pelican Wifi)

I’m a proud member of the Magenta Mob over at T-Mobile, and I’m a big fan. That said, I lost service about a mile from my eventual campsite and didn’t regain it until Monday, save for a few rogue messages. While this made connecting with others harder, to the point of not seeing a few good friends who were also attending, it forced me to be present in the moment. The present is all I had.

I didn’t have Facebook to distract me with an endless stream of content that was, by nature, depictions of the past. I didn’t have my news apps, nor any new information to ponder the future I lived my life moment by moment. Sure, there’s some planning and foresight as to a day’s events to ensure you can see all that you want to see, but by and large, most of my five days was spent just experiencing.

The mantra of be present is not new, or novel. It might be one of the oldest ideas in all of human thought, predating most of our history in many eastern religions. But we often miss just how powerful that idea is. I won’t try to get too profound on this; many authors and philosophers have said better whatever I could come up with.

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I’m certainly not the first person to appreciate living in the present. (Image Credit: izquotes.com)

Why not bring these seemingly small moments into our modern day, daily lives? What kind of reaction would you have if a stranger, leaving a credit union as you entered, hit you with a “Happy banking!”?

How different would you feel if every time you found yourself lacking a pen, or quarters for the parking meter, or the change at a register needed to not break a big bill, a stranger stepped up and filled the need?

How much better do you think you’d feel if you were able to stop, take a breath, center yourself, and get back to the present moment?

We’re more divided than ever, and I am as exhausted as I can possibly be with a record number of Americans. But it would seem denying them civility is not likely to move the both of us, all of us, forward. Maybe I’m naive, but I truly believe a sense of community and common civility would go a long way in rebuilding a broken nation so that it serves us all.

What are you waiting for?

What am I waiting for?

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Politics, philosophy, culture. Just trying to make the world a better, place. BS Finance. Follow me everywhere @MFrancisWrites. “I know that I know nothing.”

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